I am always observing Moms, especially in challenging situations. I want to learn, for both good and poor examples to try to be better. Anyways, today I watched a Mom tell her 4 year old boy it was time to leave and he was having a lot of fun. He began to pout about leaving. He didn't rage or throw a fit, but he was definitely not excited and not rushing to put on his shoes.
She said, "lets go, time to put on your shoes"
He pouted.
She waited a bit, and then said "lets go with a cheerful heart or we won't be able to come back for a while".
He changed his attitude and left with a positive vibe.
I try to enforce obedience, but I never require a cheerful attitude.....
hummmm....
but it would be nice:)
I am investigating a cheerful spirit......
see what I find out, and if it changes my view on Motherhood.
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